Monday, July 21, 2008

Richard Cohen, "ex-gay therapist" on CNN

One of the presentations that Patrick Mangan ("No Special Rights"/"Citizens for Community Values) made in opposition to amending our Human Rights Ordinance to include sexual orientation and gender identity, was the showing of a DVD called "It's Not Gay". Richard Cohen is one of the so-called experts in "ex-gay therapy" and is featured in "It's Not Gay".

What Patrick Mangan failed to mention as he was using Cohen as one of his experts was that Cohen was permanently expelled from the American Counseling Association (ACA) for violations of six ethical codes. Although the specific violations were not specified, they corresponded to ACA codes of conduct toward clients, such as avoiding dual relationships or fostering dependent counseling ties.

"Of particular note is that Cohen's violations are self-serving, as he is accused of violating standard ethics of protecting his client from dual relationships, marketing purposes and testimonials" - Joe Kort, psychotherapist and author of "10 Smart Things Gay Men Can Do to Improve Their Lives."



One survivor of "ex-gay therapy" had this to say about Cohen's so-called therapy:

Cohen relies on a common reparative therapy theory: A child who doesn't form a healthy bond with his or her same-sex parent develops an "unhealthy" sexuality.

"Cohen's approach is to utilize 'holding therapy' as a way of repairing the bond and help a person transition from homosexuality to their 'inherent' heterosexuality."

"I found this basic concept to be very damaging to me," he said. "I was always 'sick' or 'broken' or in some other way inadequate as a human being. Because therapy always focused on my father and his supposed absence and bad parenting, my relationship with him suffered." - Rick, Fredonia, N.Y.,(last name be withheld)

From from being an innocuous treatment, "ex-gay"therapy can, and does, cause great harm to many. Many survivors say they wasted years of their lives, spent thousands of dollars and suffered mental duress as a result of attempting sexual orientation conversion. Some victims even spoke of attempts at suicide.

Tuesday, July 15, 2008

Testimony of a "former homosexual"

Our opposition has always maintained that no amendment to our Human Rights Ordinance was necessary because anti-gay harassment just doesn't happen.

Here's a clip from a man who claims to have been cured of his homosexuality, describing what his own experience was growing up gay. Interestingly, he refers to himself as a "victim".



I understand that our opposition to amending the HRO has a great deal of difficulty in accepting the fact that this type of harassment does indeed exist. I thought maybe it would be more acceptable coming from the mouth of one of their own.

Tuesday, July 8, 2008

Homosexuality and the Bible...an invitation to learn

Hello Friends,

Our class (offered yearly or whenever we think we need it again!) on
Homosexuality and the Bible is this month--July, starting the 9th and
continuing every Wednesday in July from 7-9.

We'll serve refreshments (snack type foods). It's informal; a
couple of nights we'll show films, other nights we'll talk about
scripture, including the "clobber scriptures" so often used against
us, and we always welcome questions and discussions.

There's a lot of negativity out there, but we focus on the God of
love we have come to know, who welcomes us all!

You'd be welcomed if you're interested, or, if you know folks who
would find this helpful, we hope you'll pass this along to them.

Thanks so much!

Martha Carroll
Minister

The Bible and Homosexuality
A four week journey examing faith and sexual orientation

Southside Christian Church
1329 E Jackson Rd
South Bend

July 9: Your relationship with the Bible: Scriptural translation
and context
July 16: Screening of "In-Laws & Outlaws"
July 23: The Bible and the word of God: Biblical sexual ethics
July 30: Screening of "For the Bible Tells Me So"

Events begin at 7 p.m.; attend any or all classes.

For information or directions, call: 291.1156
email ssccdocsb@juno. com

We're located south of the by-pass and just south of Erskine Plaza
(formerly Scottsdale Mall). Go under the by pass, and turn left at
the first stop light. (Jackson Middle School is on the corner
there). Drive PAST the Southside Baptist Church. You'll see us just
past Farington Apts., on the left/north side of the street. Our
wooden sign out front reads Southside Christian Church, and has a red
chalice (our logo) included.